Understanding Surrogacy For Same-Sex Intended Parents

Frequently Asked Questions

• Is surrogacy legal for same-sex couples in all countries?

  Surrogacy laws vary significantly by country. While some countries fully support surrogacy for same-sex couples, others have restrictions or bans. It’s important to research the legal framework in your home country and the country where you plan to pursue surrogacy. At Vireo, we can guide you through the legalities and help ensure you’re compliant with both local and international laws.

• Do we need both egg and sperm donors if we are a same-sex couple?

  If both partners wish to contribute genetically, you may only need either an egg or sperm donor, depending on your situation. However, if neither partner can contribute genetically, both an egg and sperm donor will be needed. Vireo will work with you to explore all your options and ensure you find the best path forward.

• How does the egg or sperm donation process work?

  We collaborate with partner clinics that provide a carefully selected pool of qualified egg donors, while you may choose sperm donors from local and international Cryo banks, ensuring that you find the perfect match for your family’s needs. Donors are pre-screened for health, genetic history, and other key factors. Once a donor is selected, the eggs or sperm are retrieved and used to create embryos, which are then transferred to the surrogate.

• How is the egg or sperm donor selected?

  Donor selection is a deeply personal process. At Vireo, we guide you in selecting the right egg or sperm donor from local or international Cryo banks. You’ll have the option to choose based on traits like medical history, physical characteristics, and personality. Throughout the process, we ensure confidentiality and sensitivity to your unique needs.

• Can we use our own eggs and sperm in surrogacy?

  Yes, same-sex couples can use their own genetic material in the surrogacy process. Vireo assists in arranging the necessary medical procedures to ensure a successful embryo transfer using your eggs and sperm, allowing you to establish a biological connection with your child.

• How can we ensure that both partners are recognized as legal parents?

  In many jurisdictions, both partners can be listed on the birth certificate. If one partner is not the biological parent, legal processes such as adoption or court orders may be needed to establish parental rights. Consulting with a legal professional experienced in family law for same-sex couples is crucial.

• Can we select the gender of our baby?

  In some countries, gender selection may be legally permitted for family balancing purposes through Preimplantation Genetic Screening (PGS). Vireo can assist in determining if gender selection is an option based on your chosen destination.

• Can we select the surrogate mother ourselves?

  Yes, at Vireo, you can be involved in the surrogate selection process. We provide a curated list of surrogates who meet specific health, psychological, and lifestyle criteria. You’ll have the opportunity to review profiles and select a surrogate who aligns with your preferences.

• What are the medical risks for the surrogate and baby?

  Vireo only works with surrogates who meet strict health and medical criteria. Both the surrogate and baby will receive top-notch medical care throughout the pregnancy to mitigate risks, ensuring a healthy delivery.

• Can we attend our baby’s birth?

  Yes, our surrogacy programs allow intended parents to attend the birth of their child. However, for male intended parents, attendance at the birth must be agreed upon with the surrogate mother, as her comfort and consent are essential. Also, It's important to note that attendance may depend on hospital policies and the legal framework in the country where the birth takes place. Our team will help coordinate the process and provide you with the necessary guidance to ensure your attendance is seamless and stress-free.

• Is it possible for one partner to attend the birth while the other stays in their home country?

  Yes, it is possible for one partner to attend the birth while the other remains in their home country in most surrogacy destinations. However, in Georgia and Ukraine, this may only be allowed in cases of dire need due to specific legal and procedural requirements. We understand that sometimes logistical or personal circumstances may prevent both partners from attending. Vireo will support your family’s unique situation, ensuring that the absent partner is still part of the experience through virtual options like video calls, or providing updates as the birth progresses.

• Are babysitting services available?

  Yes, in some countries, we can assist you in arranging babysitting services during your stay. This can provide you with peace of mind as you navigate the final stages of your surrogacy journey and prepare to bring your baby home. Our local partners will recommend trusted services that meet your needs.

• What happens after the baby is born?

  After the birth, Vireo helps manage the legal paperwork necessary to transfer parental rights to you. We also assist in arranging travel documents, birth certificates, and anything else needed for a smooth transition home with your new baby.

• Do we need to stay in the destination country after the baby is born?

  Depending on local regulations, you may need to stay in the country for a period of 3 to 4 weeks to finalize legal procedures and obtain travel documents for your baby. Vireo helps facilitate these processes to ensure a smooth transition home.